And the truth shall set u free…

I don’t know where this saying originated from, and I don’t know what was the intention of person who said it, but I have discovered a powerful truth in this saying.

I previously wrote a blog on my fears of falling in love with Her. And then u know what happened – those fears lost their hold on me and I let myself fall for Her. Its not that those fears went away, but I had acknowledged them and faced up to them and that somehow made them powerless. Those things that I talked about are as likely to happen as ever, but I am not afraid of them happening. I am willing to face them should they happen.

In the previous blog I wrote about my need for Her which was basically a manifestation of my fear of loosing Her. And u know what – this fear has lost its hold on me. I suddenly feel lighter, as if a great burden has been lifted off my shoulders. I now know that I fear losing Her and that has somehow made that fear powerless. Accepting the truth about my fears has somehow set me free of those fears. I no longer feel that neediness, or feel crippled because of my fear of losing Her.

So the truth shall indeed set you free. Accept your fears. Acknowledge your fears. Articulate your fears. And you shall be set free of your fears. And writing is one really good way of doing that - of accepting the truth of your fears. So I think I am actually writing this more for me than for any audience that might be reading it.